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Okay. So on Thursday I got it into my head to Make A Change. I have been suffering lately with... well, I suppose one might call it "ennui". I get this thing sometimes where I just want to DO SOMETHING, like get a new job or move house or shift furniture around (see also: "spatial cleansing" tag). So on Thursday night, out of morbid curiosity, I had a look to see what sort of typing jobs there might be in Birmingham which paid reasonably well.

Obviously there was bugger all in Birmingham - plenty of "typing from home" stuff and a lot of temporary / part-time positions, but most of the full-time positions are on what I was earning in BCC when I first started, and quite frankly I'm struggling as it is. Then I spotted one via Reed for an audio typist position at a legal firm in London, for £20K a year.

First I was like,"Okay, what's the catch here?" and then figured out that actually, £20K in London is probably the equivalent to what I'm on now here, and if I were to live in London I would be worse off, and if I didn't it would all go on hotel/lodging and travel. Aside from that, (a) job stuff is terrifying and (b) 147 people had already applied for it.

So instead I started house-hunting again. After several fruitless hours Paul and I discovered a "three-bedroom cottage" on Barn Road, which is literally five minutes away from where we are now, for £525 a month. For Kings Heath / Moseley that's insanely reasonable. There was no photograph on the website (always a bit dubious) and the website for the actual letting agent (Easy Lettings) was rubbish, and aside from that we couldn't find it anywhere else on the internet except the one "catch-all" website it was listed on.

So on Saturday we walked down to Barn Road to look and see if there were any houses to let. Riiiight at the very end of the road we did indeed find a house to let, with an agency called Midland Housing. On getting back we Googled them. They're asking for £800pcm, which frankly is extortionate for a three-bedroomed house, but I presume it's because the postcode falls under the all-holy Moseley and thus they can charge what they like. I think they'll be sitting on that one for a looooong time.

That was disappointing, to say the least, as if it had been anything up to £600 we would actually have considered it, if only because it was a lovely house and would be SO EASY to move into. Boo. :(

I've spent a couple more hours tonight searching on rightmove.co.uk, scouting out all of Birmingham and the outskirts (including Bearwood - there are loads of houses on the road where I grew up, and at least Sandwell Council aren't complete bastards like BCC), and have come to the conclusion that if I want to live in a nice area, in a house with a decently-sized kitchen and windows which are not pointlessly tiny, I need to pay about £100 more than if I don't. There are plenty of good-sized, affordable and attractive houses - and they're all in the shit bits of Birmingham. I don't want to live in Erdington/Sheldon/Perry Barr/Hockley/Handsworth/etc. I know that doesn't leave me much option, but I don't want to end up somewhere awful, with terrible neighbours or a high street where I have to look over my shoulder...

I am probably insanely over particular. We tried searching Kings Heath and Moseley and came up with nothing (except tiny houses, obviously), and there was a BEAUTIFUL place on Russell Road in an old Georgian house with the most AMAZING kitchen I have ever seen... but it was a shared house. The rent was stupidly cheap, too. I want to live in that kitchen. :(

Soooo yes. Still fruitlessly hunting. I am also constrained by my inability to drive and my reliance on public transport, so every time I find a house which is affordable, in a nice area and looks remotely promising, it turns out to be in the Arse End of Nowhere. Considering we can't afford a proper place to live until they either bring back 100% mortgages (not looking likely), we win the lottery or someone gives us money for a deposit, renting is currently the only option and even THAT is being scuppered, mostly by my desire to actually live somewhere I feel safe at night and can bloody well get to.

BEING A GROWN-UP IS HARD.

PS: Seriously, landlords/builders/converters, stop it now with the tiny kitchens. Or with the massive kitchens with NO BLOODY CUPBOARDS. Is it such an alien concept that people actually WANT TO COOK THINGS? Jesus.

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Date: 2011-03-21 11:40 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] commoncomitatus
Honestly? In situations like this, I think it's better to be over-particular, than under-particular and settle for something you don't really want or like or isn't perfect. If you're gonna be moving from where you are, it's ultimately just gonna depress you a thousand times more if you settle and end up disliking the new place at least as much as you disliked the old. Take an extra however-the-hell-long it takes, and know you made the right decision, or you'll just end up kicking yourself in the long run.

When it comes to stuff like this, honestly, you can't be too much of a perfectionist. Y'know, unless you're like me and would be content living under a rock so long as it had internet. ;)

...for what it's worth, anyway.

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Date: 2011-03-21 11:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] teylaminh.livejournal.com
I know. The stupid thing is if we wait until next year Paul's loan will be paid off and we'll have more money to throw at it, but now I've got it into my head that I want to move, you know? Like, I tried to explain this to Paul last week, how sometimes I feel claustrophobic within my own life and just have to GET OUT, but I don't think he really understands...

Le sigh. The current property market is entirely depressing, as is most of bloody Birmingham. If I was a chav this would be much easier. :P

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Date: 2011-03-21 11:51 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] commoncomitatus
Yea, I definitely get the whole Need To Escape dealio, or at least the need to ~dispel~, and it's... well, I think 'claustrophobic' covers it best, actually, and all the more so when you honestly feel like you can't get out, even when you try to.

Which, come to that, is probably why something like Paris like you were planning might be a really good idea for practical sanity-preserving reasons as much as for gushy ones? 'Cause a change, as they say, is as good as a... something?

And I know there's the whole "same old universe right where you left it when you get back" issue to contend with, but it's something to remind you that the world doesn't begin and end in the parts of your life that you hate? Y'know?

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Date: 2011-03-21 11:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] teylaminh.livejournal.com
I think we've given up on Paris (or anywhere) for now, as I reeeeeally want to go away somewhere that involves at least an hour on a plane in September. If I don't have a proper summer holiday soon I will literally go insane.

Though we are planning on a day trip down to London as there's a Titanic exhibition on at the O2. That's something I suppose.

I'm sure this will pass soon enough; we said we were going to move in December and I kind of forgot about it for two months, so...

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Date: 2011-03-22 06:50 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] commoncomitatus
Awww, but at least you have that to set your sights on, anyhow? It's something, even if the summer is obscenely far away at the moment.

And yay London! Tell it I say hi!

But yea, I kinda suspect that probably will help more than you think it will. If nothing else, it'll remind you that you're not perpetually stuck, and there are places you can go and things you can do to dig yourself out, even if it is just for a day or two. At least, y'know, I hope it will.

I do hope it passes for you soon, though; this kind of restless wanderlust is never fun. :(
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Date: 2011-03-22 10:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] teylaminh.livejournal.com
I think I managed to convince Paul last night that Bearwood was okay, but TBH I haven't lived there in several years and it might not be as nice as I remember. I was just shocked by how many houses there were to rent on the Actual Street Where I Grew Up!

But yeah. We struck really lucky with this flat in KH and as you said, it makes everywhere else seem inferior. I feel like a horrible snob and even the areas I would consider including are a last resort.

For now we're just keeping our eyes on the house nearby in case the landlords/agency see sense. £800pcm for a three-bedroomed house is extortionate, and it's barely even in Moseley!
Edited Date: 2011-03-22 12:25 pm (UTC)
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